When I received an email from my brother, Dale, saying that he was considering retirement, he had attached a picture of a corner in his home with a note that said, “After almost 40 years of marriage I have finally arrived. I now have my very own man-corner. I had thoughts of having a man-cave, but those dreams were dashed long ago…” The photo shows a modest but nice wooden desk and a two-drawer file cabinet: that’s about all—not even a chair.